The meaning of being a Don Juan have a lot to do with more negative attributes than positives in a man. An immature, judgmental, narcissistic, selfish, somewhat egocentric is what defines this type of fella. A lot of women fell under his “charms” only to find out that they were cheated, mistreated and fooled. And some never learn their lesson, perhaps their low-self tells them so. In the past days, Juan Pablo, a “single father” was chosen by ABC to be the 18th Bachelor. What ABC producers missed is how his attitude, behavior and poise ruined not only the show but the stereotype that all Latin boys are chauvinistic, machista pigs. I wrote about him before where he missed several child support payments to his daughter Camila among his homophobic points of view. What people didn’t expect was how rude, unconsidered and tacky has become that some women were “escaping” from their lives on the show. Obviously they couldn’t stand this asshole.
It makes women think, why men act like assholes these days? Perhaps, feminism have a reasonable culprit of all this? Yes, indeed! The modest and honest courtships has changed to fast and easy dating sites and sugar daddy sites devoted to mutual financial support instead of marriage and responsibility where there’s a lot of trials and errors somewhat with deadly consequences. People say there’s a lot of fishes in the sea, but what they don’t know is the sea is poisoned with sick and ill fishes that have to be ripped out from it. Juan Pablo is not the exception.
He not only embarrassed himself but be became the first one to be hated by millions of fans that watched the show. Not only, he despised, he humiliated, denigrate women and become the meaning of the word douchebag. Now, can ABC put a Black Man on the show this time?
Twenty years passed on since the evolution of the now soon-to-be defunct CD or Compact Disk that I heard music on Cassette Tape for the last time. It was the next generation to the 8-track. It was mostly reliable but very delicate in cases that the cassette player would sometimes tangle the tape and it was a bitch to take it out. It was the Napster of it’s era where you can copy and original cassette tape of your favorite artists or record radio or conversations and interviews. It was groundbreaking piece of technology that was competing against the never dying Vinyls. But with the rising of CD’s, it have been forgotten for many years. Until, now.
“Hey Pudgie! Look what I found!” My boyfriend said while having three small boxes on his hand while I was getting ready for work looking for my jacket and purse. I stopped and looked at what he had in his hand. It was three cassette tapes on their original box and cover, all in mint condition. One was Sting first solo album, “The Dream of Blue Turtles”, the other one is Power Station and the next one is INXS “Kick”. I grabbed them and walked towards my van to go to work.
The weird part of it? Remembering the times that I put on a nice cassette or a copy and listen to it for hours during my wicked teenage years. The MTV generation before TV shows ruined it. But Sting starting a solo career away from The Police, that was something to be look up with positivism. Listening on Cassette in an era of MP3′s and Itunes (which I don’t use, seriously) where mediocrity and greed collide, it’s refreshing. It was personal P2P when friends share their tapes for you to listen or copy to without being surveillance or arrested it was fascinating.
I didn’t want to get fined just because I didn’t have insurance, but the government pushed me to get it. There’s no respect between the government and it’s people when it comes to decisions like “mandate” or else. But didn’t have no other choice. I opted for getting the choice HMO from my employer because it was a joke going to the “Obamacare” website. I’m still waiting for their package two months after I called them. One of the bad things about my health insurance among the $50.80 dollars that are withdrew from my check every two weeks which is $101.60 aprox. I have to pay full price on Doctor $50.00visits or mental clinics $80.00 and total cost for the medicines if these aren’t in the list. Right now my doctor prescribed to get glucose monitor to check how my blood sugar is going. I went to the pharmacy and long and behold, my health insurance “demanded” that I pay a co-pay of $60.00! I can’t afford it! Why my health insurance charged me a three month supply for $60.00 when I could go to Walmart and get one month for $10.00 and pay it out of my own pocket, why health insurance companies are fucking greedy with this?
Even the free tests which are included aren’t free since I receive a bill from the doctor’s office “demanding” that I pay a miserable $2.51. Obamacare is a trap towards the consumer to waste more money for the same care they receive and many are going to stop going because they can’t afford the high premiums and deductibles (which have to be eliminated from the map) for just a simple checkup. It’s about feeding a family of four, or let the family be hungry, homeless because of medical treatments and such. And the worst, I live in a state that still Medicaid isn’t expanding. Not anytime soon, where thousands of people are going to pay the damn penalty not because they don’t want to have health insurance but they simply can’t afford it. And still don’t know where that penalty fine is directed to or where it’s going.
It was better the way it was and it could be fixed by putting health insurance out of the equation but the government didn’t listen, but listen to the rich instead.
In Public Schools on Massachusetts, Sex Ed systems are replacing controversial condom wrappers to generic ones after they found suggestive and offensive messages in the wrappers.
Sex Education in Public Schools is what it is today because of the AIDS epidemic in the 1980′s, and it was emphasizing on mainly “abstinence” in the begining but when this method failed, they didn’t have no other choice to give condoms and hope and pray they’re alright. Are public schools learning from their mistakes? Schools should be only for teaching the basics like Math, Science, History, Home Economics, Gym and Financial Management. But Sexual Education? What does it teach your kids about it? That if we can’t control our urges, we have the choice of Contraceptives, Plan B and Condoms instead of keeping their legs closed and wait until marriage. It’s not about Christian values, it’s not about restriction either, it’s all about respect toward others and themselves when it comes to sex. And now sex is just as giving a handshake than a manifestation of two people consummating their marriage. And then you wonder why there’s a lot of people not wanting to tie the knot. It makes sense of this phrase “why you buy a cow when you can get the milk for free” into the spotlight and when there’s mistakes like pregnancies or/and STD’s it’s the woman’s fault while the man walks away from the scene leaving for more cases of single motherhood, family collapse among other social maladies.
Sex Ed instead of promoting good moral values, it promotes and teach that:
“You and me baby ain’t nothin’ but mammals
So let’s do it like they do on the Discovery Channel”
Converting the next generation into degenerates that fucks one and then another until god knows what, destroying the marriage and family structure. And then you complain, why women are psychos and men are assholes.
Seriously, Public School districts should cancel the Sex Ed. from their curriculum and leave the task to responsible parents that care about children’s well being. Because seriously giving out condoms isn’t going to solve pregnancies or STD’s, but create sex addicts and whores playing the victims and their children are paying the price. Maybe they should learn this song instead:
Rachel Canning sued in the past days against their parents and “demanding” them to pay for their High School Tuition, expenses and also College Tuition. But there’s a lot of catches to that story. Rachel was suspended in that Private Catholic School along with her boyfriend which her parents disapproved because of cutting classes. This “honor student” didn’t pick the wrong time to “lie” about her parents “mistreatment” which her mother verbally abused her while her father threatened to punch her to the judge. All in awe of having the judge have a little bit of “heart” in the matter. But as always the truth will show up. In the first round, luckily the parents won the case while Rachel was set up in defeat.
But I just wonder what happened to responsible parenthood and discipline these days? It’s like you’re a kid and everybody have an iphone and you instead have a straight talk phone that all you do is doing calls or you don’t have the latest gaming console or the latest fashion clothes, you gonna sue your parents for that? It’s disgusting and out of place that “parents” these days gives up on giving them the rod and instead they’re giving them a soft hand that later on when they’re teenagers they bite them. For a spoiled brat that doesn’t have the fundamentals of having a job, fundamentals of decency and self-control and yes, responsibility, it strike a chord among parents out there that teach their children right. She should be slapped in her butt a long time ago to never do it again, their tantrums, their high raised egos, their selfishness have to be erased before it could do harm to others and themselves. Thanks for government control over our children, parents have their hands tied and can’t do nothing to redirect their children into the path of good.
I remember a time when parents hit their children in front of everybody and it’s not killing them. Now, children these days expressing their fake authority and false entitlement to their parents that they opted to give the child everything to avoid making a scene. It has to stop, because the government has no right over what’s the proper way to handle a child. This is what happens when the government interferes with it and coward parents can’t defend themselves and in the end we’re creating spoiled brats that could become homeless, losers and dumb fucks in the coming years.
Yesterday, at youtube I saw a video of a “father” with a tired look on his face missing out of two things:
Playing with his tree kids and the dog
Or put Discipline to them (something that most parents lack these days)
Instead, he was looking at the screen sort of giving up the “parenting” routine nearly to the point of shedding some tears but instead he hold on to it.
This video makes me realize one thing. People take these milestones for granted and this is what they’re grateful for? By posting, their “defeat” in front of millions of viewers that parenthood isn’t great. That it was better if he was single, “enjoying” life to the fullest by hurting the ones he may or may not love? What does it teach society that is better live childfree than raising a great family and this guy work it’s way to gain attention successfully to get it’s point.
But at least he have to be grateful for what he have. Three kids? That’s a full-blown blessing! Most couples don’t have not even a dog and it has for years (me included)! Couples that have been fighting tooth and nail to at least have a son or a daughter wasting all their resources and in the end in many cases they give up full of debts and break up in silence. Ryan Hafey should be grateful that he have three rambunctious kids that all they want is his attention. How many selfish parents does that on a daily basis? A lot! They’re not prefect, but parenthood has its ups and downs, and a lot of infertile couples can’t experience that.
I think maybe if childless couples show this guy what it means to be childless on youtube perhaps he could change his mind about what it means to be a parents.
Yesterday, Tuesday March 4, Me and my boyfriend went to CDA which is 50 miles from where I live to buy groceries. At our last stop before leaving we went to a gas station named Tesoro and I filled my van with $5.60 of gas. And we headed to our small town 50 miles away and going to Walmart. As soon as I’m going to pay dog food, my card got declined twice so I panicked and left the place to get my boyfriend to go directly to the bank.
At the bank, the bank tellers told me that I’m still have 44.00 left in my account so I went back to another supermarket and try to buy dog food. Once again, I got declined even with the credit setting. That time I was pissed and decided to go again to the bank to figure it out what’s going on. It turned out that the gas station that I went to and buy the gas at, took all my money and left me in negative $5.60 cents. The teller told me in details that gas stations have that practice of hold some of the money from your account as too see if you have enough to pay for gas and to avoid “run-offs.” Some gas stations hold as far as $100.00. In my case it took all my money and it was plain temporarily theft. I was having panic attacks, having a hard time sleeping that I have to take sleeping pills because of this snafu. I’m not an irresponsible brat. I’m a very responsible person when it comes to spending and trying to stretch that dollar which is not easy. And companies like that who take advantage of the customer by temporarily steal most of your money because of lack of trust, is insensible at worst. At least, I got my money back the next day, where others might not be that lucky waiting for three days max.
And there’s no agencies that can stop this practice that hurts a lot of struggling Americans. The only thing to avoid it is to pay inside with cash instead of at the pump with your debit or credit card. If gas companies are not trusting the customer how the hell customers are going to trust them using their debit or credit card?